A Different Sort Of Fashion Blog

When I started this blog, I had EVERY intention that it would be different than every other fashion blog.

It's easy to write about how to wear this trend or how to wear that trend, but as someone who has NEVER had a completely flat and fat free stomach and who has a itty bitty waist, but GYNORMOUS hips, trends never sat right on me the way fashion bloggers write about.

So I set off to start a different sort of fashion blog, giving tips and advice on how to be fashionable, fabulous and feminine. Yes, it is geared to the over 35 crowd, but I am sure every age can find tips.

I have a VERY good friend (she is more like a sister!) who has fibromyalgia. Fashion is not easy for her. On her worst days, a fly landing on her skin can hurt immensely.  So HOW can she embrace trends when she is in pain EVERY day?

The trends are out and cuter than ever, but some of the trends can not be worn by my friend because they are a little too tight or high.

As someone who does not suffer from chronic pain, I can get away with anything, but what of my friend? What advice can I give?

It isn't easy, that's for sure, but my blouse yesterday reminded me that NOT all style is high and tight.

So, here are some tips I hope help if you have chronic pain, but want to be fashionable.

1) Find something you like that is loose and baggy.  For ideas, go to newlook.com or asos.com. Their prices are reasonable and you can get some GREAT ideas there.

Once I have my computer up and running (AND learn to link) I will CERTAINLY link!

2) Invest in something you LOVE, but maybe buy it one size up.  It won't look too big and will also NOT hurt on the days you feel awful.

3) On those days where your pain is tolerable for running errands, but where it hurts to get dressed, take an hour or two and try on some clothes and test your pain threshold.

4) Don't think you have to give up that cute flowy dress you've been eyeing because it buttons in the back. Yes. You don't want to practice yoga to get the dress on, but if you can get it a size up (and not have it it look too big!), you may be able to keep it buttoned.

5) Don't give up your go to clothes for the days the pain chains you to your bed. Sometimes you HAVE TO wear things that may not be the most stylish, but fashion should be the LAST thing you should think about when the pain confines you to your bed or couch.

And MOST IMPORTANTLY :

6) DON'T GIVE UP! If seeking a wardrobe that is BOTH fashionable AND easy on pain is what you want, understand that, like all of us, you will have plenty of misses.  Just do not allow yourself to get discouraged.

After all, if you can live with chronic pain, you TRULY can conquer ANYTHING!